I live in the SB area, so I thought I'd give you a few tips. First off, it definitely IS a tourist destination, which is why the hotels are so expensive. Memorial Day is the start of the biggest tourist season we have, so you will have a lot of trouble getting a deal. The Bacara (where the wedding is being held) is really far north. As a previous poster said, your best bet is to stay in Goleta, which is the closest city. I would not advise staying in Carpinteria unless you have a rental car--it's 9 miles south of the city of SB, which is itself perhaps 10 miles south of the Bacara. It would take you a half hour in the best traffic to drive that far, and a cab would be about $55 each way. Not a good idea. Santa Ynez or Solvang would be a bad idea too. The quickest route to and from those areas and the southern part of the county has been repeatedly washed out by rains this year, so it could take you hours to get to and from there. At the best of times, it would be a half hour drive or more. I think the Motel 6 is a good bet, but go for it right away. It will fill up quickly. The good news is that the S.B. airport is very small and very easy to deal with, so if you're flying in and out of there, you will be close to Goleta and the Bacara, and you will have a very relaxing travel experience.