"disappeared" ... more like brainwashed by the new wife that "quality time" does not include my old routine of sitting in front of the computer for two hours every night with the World Series of Poker in the background. Being married to a great girl ... Great!!! :) Losing your free evevings to writing thank you cards, arranging wedding albums, putting up blinds in the house and than her deciding it lets in too much light ... "uhhhh maybe we should have gone with red" ... having your first name replaced with "honey" ................... ____________________!!! :)